50 things to say before you die
You’ve read the lists that compiled the 50 or 100 places and things you must see and do before you die.
These lists are great for reminding you how short life is and for showing you what you’re missing.
This list is a little different; it compiles 50 things to say before you die.
Why such a list? Because you’d be surprised how little people express their selves and say what they need to say to those who matter. You don’t want to be on your deathbed before you utter these words.
You need to say these at the appropriate times and with true meaning behind them. Reading them now does not count.
1. Thanks for everything you’ve done. – Say it to your mother, father, grandmother, or sister; whoever deserves it. Say it when it’s least expected and when it will make the most impact.
2. You’ve changed my life.
3. I need you.
4. I’ve only got one life to live. – This will give you tremendous motivation.
5. Nothing can stop me.
6. I love my life.
7. There’s nothing I’d rather be doing.
8. I can change the world.
9. I will change the world.
10. I have changed the world.
11. I’m rich without money.
12. I’m doing what I was meant to do.
13. I conquered my biggest fear.
14. Glad to help you.
15. I have all the money I need.
16. I don’t care what people think.
17. I’m honest.
18. I’m going for it!
19. I’m proud of myself.
20. I’ve failed.
21. I’ve learned from my failures.
22. I have no regrets. – Many people believe everything happens for a reason. So why would you have any regrets?
23. I don’t like my life – Of course it’s a bad thing to say. But once you’ve acknowledged that you don’t like your life you can now begin to change it.
24. I’ve never had more fun in my life.
25. You hurt me.
26. There’s more to life than this.
27. I love you no matter what.
28. I’ve accomplished a lot.
29. You’ve been successful.
30. I’m listening. – Sometimes it’s more important to listen than to talk.
31. I’m here for you.
32. Words can’t describe the way I feel.
33. I’m not giving up.
34. I don’t have any worries.
35. There is no place like home.
36. It was a pleasure to talk to you.
37. I have all the time in the world.
38. I need a hand.
39. You’re my best friend.
40. I’m glad you were here.
41. I’m just gonna go for it.
42. I can’t thank you enough.
43. I’m trusting my gut.
44. I follow my own path.
45. What a wonderful world.
46. I take full responsibility. – Own up to your mistakes, people will respect you.
47. I’m not sorry. – There are times when you shouldn’t be sorry.
48. I came, I saw, I conquered.
49. I haven’t said enough.
50. I’m not afraid.
Share anything else in the comments below you think is important to for people to say in their lifetime.
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great post, very motivational!!
great list!
My additions:
51. I am my own best friend. (as opposed to being your own worst enemy)
52. I trust you completely.
53. I forgive you. (this is for you, not them…it will set you free, so say it often)
54. I am incapable of hate.
55. I will never forget how good you made me feel.
Great additions! I especially like number 2.
-Andrew
good stuff…
I like ‘what a wonderful world’… Would’ve also liked to see a reference to the greatness of coffee in there somewhere
Glad you liked this Ross.
-Andrew
50 cosas que decir antes de morir [Eng]…
Muy completa la lista
. Está en inglés pero se entiende muy bien…
_Whatever I’ve done , I’m responsible for it .
_The only one who trusts me completely is me.
Awesome additions Shahab!
-Andrew
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There is another Skywalker.
In grave there’s nothing but dust!!
There is no remembrance of former things; neither shall there be any remembrance of things that are to come with those that shall come after.
Ecclesiastes 1:11
I have said most of those!
Excellent JuanS! Not many have accomplished this.
-Andrew
That was a heart-warming list!
Honesty and gratitude are as beautiful as they’re simple…
Glad you like it axel! The simplest things are the most powerful.
-Andrew
thank for God for this life
hope God forgive all my mistakes
51. I will see you later.
52. Your Next!
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Does reading it all at once count, cause i just have.
@ “me”
From the beginning of the post:
“You need to say these at the appropriate times and with true meaning behind them. Reading them now does not count.”
Sorry
-Andrew
I have faith in myself.
I have faith in you.
How may I help you?
You’re pretty/handsome. (To a loved one OR a stranger–it’ll make BOTH of you feel good.)
I am afraid. (Saying this allows you to begin the search for your courage, or the comfort, you need.)
I have imperfections. (Acknowledging such things as physical deformities and mental illness frees you.)
I hate my imperfections. (This allows you to begin to understand your deeper feelings about them and to come to accept them).
I accept my imperfections. (This allows you to begin to heal from them.)
I love my imperfections. (Because they make you unique, and that is a good thing.)
I love you UNCONDITIONALLY–really THINK about this before you say it, and say it only when you mean it. It won’t happen very often.
I love myself unconditionally–this is even harder than saying you love someone else unconditionally.
Those are some great ones A. Shelton. Thanks for sharing!
-Andrew
Great reminders – all of them.
Thank you.
Glad you liked it Sher!
-Andrew
Great thoughts
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51. Art is spontaneous creation.
52. Life is art.
53. I am an artist
54. Live art-fully!!!!
Great additions Cheryl! I guess you like art?
-Andrew
Wonderfully inspiring list, I’m definitely bookmarking this one.
My addition would be
51. I don’t need a man/woman to make me happy.
So many people seem to be rushing from one relationship to the next without taking time to enjoy life on their own. You don’t need someone to complete you!
Hey Emma,
Glad you liked it so much!
Awesome addition! Very true.
-Andrew
These are very thought-provoking, thank you Andrew
I would add:
To thine own self be true.
No problem Louise! I’m happy you liked it.
Great addition. That quote is by Shakespeare right?
-Andrew
Here’s my contribution:
51. [silence] – because sometimes we (meaning I) don’t know when to shut up.
That’s a pretty good one Timmy.
-Andrew
I may seem a little crude but also appropriate for some…
51 : What’s next ?
That’s a pretty good one Shran! I could definitely see that being used in the right context. Though sometimes it might sound like you’re ungrateful and not living in the moment.
-Andrew
This is an outstanding post. I really enjoyed reading the list and the other things to say written by others in the comments. I feel better for having read this. You’ve changed my life!
Hey Chris,
Glad you enjoyed it so much! I hope it did make you feel better and possibly change your life.
-Andrew
I love how many of these are also titles of or part of lyrics to songs.
Some of the best days ever for me have been when I start the day with a song like these.
Thanks for the list
Hey Logan,
Glad you like this list!
It’s incredible how music can change your mood and your life.
-Andrew
My favorite:
“Thank you for being in my life.”
great list!
Glad you liked that one Terri
and the rest of the list.
Thanks for reading,
-Andrew
“I love you the way you are”
“I will do it”
“I will help you”
“I need you”
“I am and I will be behind you”
Those are some great ones monte! Thanks for sharing.
-Andrew
Amazing n wonderful read here! I wanna share this website with all my friends
Thanks for Sharing
Hi Sophie,
Thanks so much for your compliments and for sharing with your friends.
-Andrew
-I tried my best. ( I feel this is an important thing to be recognized- simply for the fact that, it’s great that these phrases listed are all very positive, however, sometimes we don’t succeed. I feel that it needs to be given more credit to- The “try” side of things. So, it’s alright not to have gotten what you first set out to do, to be happy with trying. And if all else fails, try, try again.)
-2 Live for the little things.
Those little things piece together all the big things sometimes.
Thanks for this site, by the way. It’s been a joy to read, and have a tangible personal list for things that should be said more often. It’s food for thought.
Personally, I say these things often- I’m hoping that some day I can be the proud owner of how it feels to have said them all. :]
Thanks for sharing Savannah! Yes, there are many times in which we don’t succeed. And it’s definitely better to try than to wonder.
I’m glad you’ve been enjoying Lyved.
-Andrew
Thank You. These things have just given me my life back and I believe I can apply them to the here and now for me
I’m so glad this post has helped you that much!! That’s fantastic.
-Andrew
I won’t say: “You changed my life”, but i will look ( I can’t promise) that I will come back to this post when I say everything of these, because if I do… Than I guess it would be a change…
Hey Andrew! I just stumbled across your website a few hours ago, and I love what I’m finding…This is definitely potentially life-changing stuff. Please keep posting things like this!
Hi “Mason’s Mom”
Thanks for stopping by! It’s great to meet you.
I’m glad that you said “potentially” life-changing because it’s up to the reader to use what I write to change themselves.
I’ll keep the articles coming.
-Andrew
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…I am grateful that you were born.
That’s a great one “shellonwheels”!
-Andrew
I’m glad someone said “I Love You Unconditionally”. I think that’s one of the most important things to say or hear. To many times we get comfortable our relationships and believe the other already knows how we feel. It’s important to verbally acknowledge how we truly feel.
I’ve done most of these, even the other suggested ones, so I must be on the right track… somehow. LOL!
Ooohps. “Too many times”.
Hi Chandra,
That’s very true! We do get comfortable or believe our loved ones already know how we feel. And perhaps they do, but it’s always nice to hear it.
I’m really glad that you’ve said most of these. That’s an amazing accomplishment!
-Andrew
Liv every day like its your last cuz you never know win it really will be!!!
somthin to do win you love someone treit thim right an let thim kno just how really spesall they r to you!!! (:
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eerie.
Number one…I actually said that to my father (he was helping me with medical benefits jargon) the night before he passed away. Literally hours before he did (completely unexpected passing)
You literally never do know when things will happen. So always say what you mean. Don’t placate or lie.
Hi Liz,
I’m sorry for your loss. That is eerie. But I think it’s great that you’re saying the things on this list and saying them with true meaning. I’m sure what you said made your father feel very happy.
Thanks so much for sharing your story.
Sincerely,
-Andrew
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