12 reasons why you hate your life

There’s really no reason you should hate your life. Many people give excuses as to why they do. Here are 12 common reasons. If you given these excuses then you need to quickly readjust your thinking. When you do, you’ll quickly come to enjoy your life.

1. Your parents ruined your life

Many people complain that their parents raised them wrong, set them up for failure, or didn’t start a college fund for them. If you can recognize these shortcomings, the you can change the future.

2. You have no money

This is probably the worst excuse. If money is the main reason for your happiness then you will never be happy. Money should not make you enjoy your life or hate it.

3. Your job sucks

If it sucks so much then quit and move on. A bad job should give you motivation to chase your dreams and strive for something better.

4. You have no time

If you have no time to do what you want then you must be letting unimportant tasks get the best of you. There’s many times when we think something is important or urgent, but in reality it isn’t. Recognize when you do this and change your focus to what you desire. Eliminate the unnecessary things that we all have and instantly you’ll have more time.

5. You have no one

Many times people’s depression and reason for hating life is because they feel alone. It’s one of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. Everyone must feel that they are wanted and have friends. When you don’t feel like you have anyone, you become depressed. But being depressed isn’t going to do any better, it’s going to chase people further away.

6. You’re a failure

People say they’re failures when they don’t accomplish something. But they always forget to recall or recognize the successes they’ve had in the past. You will never be a failure as long as you continue. And you never fail to learn from failure. Failure is great.

7. You’ve done nothing with your life

If you’ve done nothing productive with your life then get going! Start now or start tomorrow. It’s never too late or too early.

8. You’re bored

If you’re bored with your job and life, then you aren’t challenging yourself enough. You’ve settled with mediocrity. Start dreaming. Write down your dreams and goals, and how you can achieve them. Your life will become exciting in no time.

9. You’re stuck

Many people hate their lives because they feel like they’re getting no where fast. Whether it be debt and bills or a bad job, you can begin to plan your escape right now. Create a plan with hundreds of little steps and take at least one step everyday. Once you do so you’re becoming unstuck and before you know it you’ve escaped.

10. You let others get to you

You may hate your life because you listen too much to others. Don’t listen to naysayers and negative opinions. Don’t let others make you hate your life. Most of the time those who make you feel that way, hate their own lives.

11. You’ve stopped yourself

Many of those who hate their lives, do so because they didn’t follow through with their dreams. YOU are the most important factor to YOUR joy and happiness.

12. You’re too negative

If you hate your life then you’re too negative. Change your attitude and you’ll enjoy your life.

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2. Stevie says:
   May 24th, 2008 at 10:03 pm

   This is so true! Maybe you hate how things are going, but it is only because you are sitting back and not doing anything about it. Get over the sadness and find true happiness some where. You don’t need anyone to make you happy, you need to love yourself first before you can do anything. Waking up in the morning and saying “I love myself” will start your day off to a good start, and begin improving your life one step at a time.

3. Andrew says:
   May 25th, 2008 at 9:14 am

   Exactly Stevie!

   -Andrew

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